Asking for a Referral Without Being Awkward
I spent a decade watching junior editors at mid-sized houses treat networking like a mystical, dark art, as if a referral was something that just happened to you during a particularly soulful cocktail hour. They’d sit around whispering about “building relationships,” which is usually just code for “waiting for someone to notice you exist.” It’s a polite fiction that keeps freelancers broke. If you’re waiting for a client to spontaneously decide to champion your business without any direction, you aren’t running a professional service; you’re running a charity. The truth is that how referrals should be encouraged has nothing to…